Day 1: Develop A
'Success Mindset'
The first day is about finding your center and creating the right mindset!
This is extremely important! Without it, you will have a difficult time
finding success.
You can have the best tools and strategies at your disposal. But if you
have a poor attitude and mindset, those tools and strategies will not
do you much good.
If you want to succeed, you have to pull out all the stops and use all
that you have. And your mind is the greatest asset you possess.
First of all, realize the simple fact that every problem is really an
opportunity in disguise.
If you are brand new to the Internet marketing world, you are extremely
fortunate! Because, you have to opportunity here to start from scratch!
You don't have to pick just another job and get stuck in it again. You
have a chance to pick something that you actually enjoy doing!
The only way is up from here. And that's what we will focus on. We have
an opportunity here to find what we are really passionate about and do
that!
I would use this day to clearly outline a few rules for myself to
follow, for the rest of the 30 days, and beyond:
- I will realize that my failures are in my past. They're gone, old news.
I'm not going to dwell on them or beat myself up over them. Today is a
new day and I'm going to make a fresh start! I will simply learn from
my mistakes and forge on ahead!
- I will not worry or panic about my current financial situation,
as that will not help matters at all; it will only slow me down. If I run
across any problems or challenges, I will spend very little time
focusing on the problem while spending most of my time focusing on the
solution!
- I will also realize and keep reminding myself that every problem, every
challenge has within it the seed of a new opportunity! And that's what
I will focus on - the opportunities.
- I will spend the next 30 days focusing only on success, optimism,
solutions, and on moving forward.
- I am going to keep the negative people out of my life for at least the
next 30 days.
- I will remind myself that this is totally doable! There are people out
there with much less intellect and resources than me that have created
amazing successes on the Internet. If they can do it, I can definitely
do it! All I need is to take action, pay attention to where I'm heading
and improve accordingly…and persist!
- And finally, I will realize that this world really is a place of abundance.
Just look around. You've got the entire Internet at your disposal! And
as if that were not enough, you've got public libraries full of
information and knowledge. It's yours for the taking. Put it to use!
Everything you need is there, including money. We just have to put
forth the action and claim what's ours.
Every morning, before I do anything else,
I will remind myself of the above. My goal is success and that's all
I'm going to focus on. Failure is not an option. If anytime during the
day, I begin to feel down, I will go through the above list again and
get back in touch with what's real.
Every night, before falling asleep, I will visualize myself as having
already reached my goals, as clearly and vividly as I can. I will also
get in touch with all the feelings that go with that vision and really
embody the experience. I will see myself exactly as I want to be,
living the life that I want to live, enjoying the things and
experiences that I want.
This is my primary focus for the next 30 days.
Please do the above every single day! I cannot stress the importance of
it enough.
Remember...
You can have the best tools and strategies at your disposal. But if you
have the wrong mindset, those tools and strategies will not do you much
good.
Get your mind firmly focused in the right direction and the rest will
fall into place!
Believe That It’s Possible For YOU!
You have to believe that you CAN get whatever results you're after. If
your goal is to earn a million dollars, you have to convince yourself
that you can do it.
The easiest way to do it is to spend time looking at the successes and
millionaires around you. Read about them. Watch videos about them.
Listen to others talk about them. Do whatever you have to do to FOCUS
on success, and spend time around like-minded people.
Something very interesting happens when you shift your focus in this
way. See, there is a universal law that tends to attract to you
whatever it is you most focus on. Whatever you focus on most gets drawn
to you. Don't ask me how this happens. (Actually, I do know how but
explaining it will take several pages. ;-) Just know that it's a proven
fact. Like energy attracts like energy.
For example, when you start taking guitar lessons, you will suddenly
find that there are so many others around you who are also into
guitars. They are drawn to you. You suddenly become aware of
like-minded people simply by focusing in a certain direction (in this
case, guitars.)
So, start looking for proof around you. Read stories and case studies
about others who have already earned a million dollars. Let the stories
motivate you and make a believer out of you.
The reality is that whatever it is that you want in your life, you can
have it, IF you first believe that you can have it. Believe at the core
(not just on the surface level) that it is possible, that it's doable.
If others can do it, you can do it. It's that simple.
Below is an article I published that discusses some of the common
limiting beliefs people have, and the truths behind them…
10 Common Money & Success Myths
For the longest time, people believed that the earth was flat and that
if you traveled all the way to the end, you would fall off! People were
trapped; they were stuck in a world that reached out only as far as
they could see - a world much, much smaller than the actual size of
earth. They were stuck not because that was all that they had available
to them, but because that's all they "believed" they had.
They firmly held on to this belief until one day someone proved them
wrong by sailing around the world. And in doing so, he opened up a
whole new world of possibilities and opportunities for everyone. The
rest of earth became available to them.
Beliefs are funny creatures. You see, beliefs are not necessarily based
on what's true or factual in the world. The power of each belief comes
only from the believer of that belief; the strength of your belief
depends on how strongly you believe it to be true.
That means that you can believe whatever you want to believe. Because,
as long as you believe it to be true, it will be true in your life.
Consequently, you will attract events, experiences and people into your
life that will match your beliefs, which will in turn strengthen those
beliefs further.
The level of success of a person depends greatly on his/her beliefs. It
depends greatly on how s/he views the world, through those beliefs. For
this reason, it is very, very crucial to adopt only the beliefs that
serve you and to let go of those beliefs that limit you.
Because, we don't always see what is "real." We perceive the world
based on our beliefs. As we walk through life, we begin to realize that
a lot of what we learned growing up was not very useful, or even true.
We begin to realize that life is really about "choices." That we can
choose to believe whatever we want. And if a certain belief is not very
useful, we can change it.
You have done it before. It takes courage to be willing to look at your
current beliefs and then decide whether they serve you or sabotage you,
whether to keep them or get rid of them. But you have that choice. You
have the power to change your beliefs, and to change what is "real" to
you.
Here are a few commonly held beliefs, or "myths," that hold many of us
back from achieving success...
Myth
#1: I don't have what it takes to be successful and
wealthy.
Fact: Successful people
were not born that way. In fact, many of the most successful people
today had very difficult lives. They were regular people who wished for
more. And they decided to do something about it - to change their
circumstances. Anyone can do the same, including you and I.
Myth
2: I don't have any experience or education in anything.
Fact:
Many successful people started with no experience. Many of them also
flunked high school and never had any college education.
The only way to get real education and experience in anything is by
doing, by "starting." Once you start doing it, you learn very quickly.
Think of all the things that you know how to do. Driving a car, riding
a bike, playing sports, reading, writing, speaking...even walking. All
of these things have one thing in common: at one time in your life, you
didn't know how to do any of them.
And despite how impossible it seemed at the time, you decided to do it
anyway. It's the same with everything in life. You learn by doing. You
get experience by doing something a few times. Get started. Do it once,
twice, three times and you're already on your way to becoming an expert
in no time!
Myth
3: To be successful, I have to start a business, and I'm
just not cut out to be a businessperson. I don't have what it takes.
Fact:
Listen...I know a
few people who can barely read or write. Yet they're running their own
businesses. It's scary, I know. But think about it...right now, at this
moment, you're already several giant steps ahead of them.
The only difference between a person who's thinking about starting a
business and another who is running a business is just that. One of
them is doing what the other is only "thinking" of doing. They both had
the same ideas and dreams. They both probably had the same doubts and
fears as well. But one of them decided to start anyway, to take action
despite the doubts and fears. One of them decided that if other people
could do it, then he could as well.
Myth
4: Money isn't that important.
Fact:
Tell that to the
family who's starving right now, or to the family who needs money for
serious medical help for a member of their family. They'll tell you how
important money is.
We've been conditioned from Day 1 to believe that money is not
important. We have been conditioned to believe that wanting money is
wrong and unethical. And yet the entire world seems to run on money.
It is one of the biggest myths known to man. And it's one of the main
reasons why the majority of the people are not wealthy.
Money is simply a way to measure the amount of value you create for
others. If you have a lot of money, it means you have created a lot of
value for other people. If you don't have the kind of money you'd like
to have, that simply means that you just haven't yet found a way to
produce the kind of value for others that you're capable of, or the
value that you'd like to.
Just look around you at the countries or even cities that have lack of
money. You'll find that in these same places, there are usually more
crimes being committed, more people taking advantage of others, more
diseases, more suffering, more deaths, and none or very little
education.
Money may not be the most important thing in life, but let's face facts
here... Money is pretty darned important in this day and age. It's how
you support yourself! It's how you buy food, water, shelter, clothing.
It's how you pay the medical bills. It's how you help and support
others around you, including your loved ones. And we both know that
those are very important things.
And by the way, if you feel that it's more important to contribute to
others than to be rich, well guess what, when you have more money, you
can contribute more! You can do much more for others and you can help a
lot more people when you have more money.
Only good things can come from having more money.
Myth
5: Money must be made slowly.
Fact:
Nothing could be
further from the truth. The only way to make money is to make it
quickly! What good is money if you can't enjoy it right now instead of
20 years from now? What good is money if you can't contribute to others
now as much as you'd like to, instead of 20 years from now?
The quicker you make money, the quicker you can change your life and
the lives of those around you - for the better. There are no rules
stating that money should be made slowly.
The only way to make money is to make it quickly! You will also find
that the more money you make, the easier it becomes to make more
because you begin to shift your focus from survival to abundance and
contribution, in the process. And that shift in focus simply attracts
more wealth to you.
Myth
6: If you weren't born into money, you'll never be rich.
Fact:
Millionaires are
made every day. Many of them are self-made millionaires - people who
started with nothing or close to nothing and amassed fortunes. Simply
because they decided to and they didn't let anyone dissuade them from
their goals.
If you believe that you have to be born into money to be rich, you're
missing out on all the riches out there, waiting for you to claim.
Myth
7: If I win, someone else has to lose.
Fact:
This is absolute,
high-grade, premium quality nonsense. There is enough opportunity and
enough money in this world to go around so that everyone can be a
winner. In fact, there is more than enough to go around.
The only reason they're not winners is because they don't believe they
can ethically and morally do so. (Remember "the earth is flat" story?)
As soon as we get rid of that belief and take a step into the unknown,
we begin to realize how much wealthier you can be. You also realize how
your being a winner can only help others win as well!
You can become rich by using ethical and legal means - without having
to cheat or hurt others. In fact, that's the only way I recommend that
people do it.
The easiest way to become rich is to create value in other people's
lives. There are no losers in that scenario.
Myth
8: Making a profit is a sin.
Fact:
If you cheat or
hurt others to make a profit, then yes, in that case, making a profit
would be bad. But if you create value for others, then making a profit
is always good. By creating more value for others, you're helping them
live better lives. There is nothing sinful in helping others, doing a
great job at it, and getting paid for it.
Money doesn't turn good people into bad people. Money simply magnifies
the qualities that are already inherent within a person. If you're a
good person, having more money will only allow you to do more good! If
you're a bad person, having more money will allow you to do more bad.
And most of us really are good people. And we have a lot to offer
others. And you can only do more good by having more money.
Myth
9: Having more money will mean that I'll have to work hard
all day and not have time for my family, friends and leisure.
Fact:
There's a huge
difference between working hard and working smart. Successful people
have learned to work smart! They have learned to find other successful
people they can model after so they don't make the same mistakes other
people did. And by doing so, you can save a lot of time, money, effort
as well as some major headaches.
Getting your business started and running does require work. There's no
way around that. But, you can still take time out for your loved ones
and for your leisure. In fact, it's highly recommended that you do
that. If you're spending all your time trying to keep your business
afloat, you're either not going about things the right way or you're
just in the wrong business.
Myth
10: If I have more money, people will judge me, and they
will not like me very much.
Fact:
People will judge
you anyway. They are judging you right now! It's what they do,
unfortunately. Most people don't know who you are anyway! They don't
know the "real" you. They only know who they think you are, based on
what little information they have about you. So, let them think or feel
what they want. They don't know any better. And you really shouldn't be
concerned about those people.
Remember, respect and friendship are earned. If they can't appreciate
who you are, then they don't deserve your time, or your thoughts.
Many of these myths that have been floating around for hundreds of
years and were typically conjured up by people who didn't know any
better. Many of them got programmed into us when we were very young.
But, we're adults now. We can think for ourselves. We can choose to
adopt only those beliefs that benefit you and drop the ones that are no
longer useful or empowering. It's all up to you.
Beliefs are very powerful indeed. They, for the most part, are what
dictate the quality of your life. Change your beliefs and you change
your life.
Free your mind, and success will follow!
The next thing you want to do is to learn
to relax. The more relaxed you are, the more efficiently
your mind (and body) will function.
Here's a simple relaxation technique you can use to center yourself:
Lay down in bed or sit in a comfortable chair. Close your eyes and
start taking deep, slow breaths. Let your mind go from all other
thoughts and just focus on your breathing. In and out. With each
in-breath, see yourself filling up with energy and vigor. And with each
out-breath, see all the stress, tension, worry and confusion drifting
out of your body.
Do this for 5 to 15 minutes every morning, and a couple of times during
the day when you take breaks. It will center your mind and relax your
body. Both are essential for optimum performance, and success.
And finally, you have to keep your body healthy! Your body is your
vehicle, without it you won't be able to do much. Keep yourself well
nourished and hydrated throughout the day. When we are faced with tough
situations, we tend to abuse our bodies with unhealthy foods and
drinks. Make an effort to not do this. Avoid junk foods, high-sugar
foods and drinks, and alcohol. For the next 30 days, make an honest
effort to eat healthy
so that your mind and body can function at
optimum levels.
It is also very useful to add in at least 20 to 30 minutes of brisk
walking into your schedule. You can do this in the mornings, at noon,
or in the evenings. It's your choice. If you can't do it every day, do
it at least 3 to 4 times per week. This can also be a time for you to
take a break from everything for a few minutes. I find it very useful
to grab a notepad or tape recorder while I go on my walks. The very
moment you let go of everything is when some really great ideas come to
you. (It's because your mind has a chance to relax and roam freely.)
To some people, this all may seem like unnecessary work, but it's
absolutely critical to your success that you do them.
Now that you've taken care of a plan for your body and mind, it's time
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